After like forever of not having a stable boyfriend, I finally found one. I won’t call it that whirlwind romance or the forever together syndrome kind of relationship but I still wanted to keep it going even though I knew it’s just for some weeks.
I meet people who say after the first and second date, you should be able to tell if someone is right for you but I never went on any date with him, he was just this person I see every day and spend my sleeping and waking moments thinking about, but despite this I knew we couldn’t make the relationship work no matter how hard I try on my part. But despite knowing this fact, I still thought I’ll scale through after all it’s my happiness first but I wasn’t prepared for the aftermath.
Chapter One
I’ve only heard of whirlwind romance, true love and all those straight out of Hollywood kind of love or fairytales, I’ve never experienced one firsthand. So even though I act like I don’t care or conjure up stories of my perfect romance and feed it to friends and foes alike, I still have a strong desire to feel the real deal, but for so long it never came my way.
I was lonely and I knew it but I was going to bite my tongues off before letting anyone know I was. I didn’t know why I find it hard to tell people I’m lonely maybe it’s because I feel it would be ungrateful of me to say such when I’m surrounded by a lot of people around me. Until I realise you could be the most popular man on earth and still feel the ache of loneliness.
So after like forever of not having a stable boyfriend, I finally found one. I won’t call it that whirlwind romance or the forever together syndrome kind of relationship but I still wanted to keep it going even though I knew it’s just for some weeks.
Despite knowing it wouldn’t work no matter how much I try on my own part, I still thought I’ll scale through after all it was my happiness first but I wasn’t prepared for the aftermath. I knew he wasn’t my type of man from the onset but I went ahead and dated him because I was lonely. It turned out to be a decision I’ll forever regret.
The Beginning
(My part)
Seeing him every day living right next door to me was more than I could handle. I needed to stay sane but every moment with him make me realise how utterly crazy my feelings for him will drive me if I don’t do something about it. And it’s either I give my feelings for him a chance or I put an end to it.
Putting an end to it sounds like an easy task to do when I’m in the four corners of my room but the moment I come face to face with him, I realised it’s going to be a lot more harder than just a resolution.
I go to bed everyday thinking about him, telling myself it is okay to like someone but the unacceptable is showing it, you can’t show the world (especially him) you’ve fallen head over heels in love with him , you don’t want to be laughed at, trampled on and taken for granted. These and many more lies I feed to myself trying to salvage the situation, but the feelings didn’t go away until I began to be more realistic. Actually I don’t care if I’m trampled upon , mocked or taken for granted, all I care about is that I am in his arms feeling that great muscles that always flex beneath his shirt, running my hand on his smooth and silky skin, well I don’t know how his skin feels yet but at least that’s how it looks from afar when he is shirtless and doing a little bit of gardening at his backyard.
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